[quote=“Gus”]…Thanks for posting your experience that you had in that situation, I know that there are more patients who have had similiar experiences as yours and must stress that this kinda treatment and even worser is happening all over the nation. …
If I had not been well educated by the people like you who post on these boards it could have been much worse, but I’m still stunned that there are actually medical professionals who are so ignorant and close-minded.
Many years ago I accepted the fact that in order to get good medical care we have to be educated, well informed consumers. But when it came to dealing with something as critical as kidney failure, fistula/access surgery, and dialysis, I naively expected a higher level of competence. :shock:
I know better now, but I’m still a little angry and upset over what could have happened to my husband if I had not decided to do online research in order to help him prepare for his future medical care. He’s the patient and actually dealing w/ his medical issues but we had decided my share of helping him w/ this was to be as educated as possible to help him make informed choices. He knew I could not just sit by and do nothing and that at some point he will probably need an advocate to speak for him. What if we had decided to just rely on the medical professionals for information? Just the thought, that we could have done that, still makes my stomach churn. I’ll get past this, and the anger will lessen. However, I think will forever be a little more apprehensive at every point he is required to make an informed choice about his own care. In the back of my mind will be the question, “What have they not told us that we should know before making this decision?” ---- but as long as we have all of you here, I’ll feel much better. You are Angels to spend your time educating us “newbies”.