Thanks so much, Beth. I really appreciate your taking the time to pass along such good advice.
So far the nephrologist says short of a working crystal ball there is no way to predict when 3 months prior to dialysis will be. Surgeon said today, after examining hubby’s arms, that he will need a minimum of three months for a natural fistula to “ripen” enough for use, if it ever becomes useable. :shock: This appears to mean he will need to wait until his kidneys fail, have the emergency placement in the chest, then attempt the A/V fistula in the arm. That scenario is sooo frustrating and just plain makes me mad. It will mean a much harder time for my husband and greater expense for Medicare to cover.
He is only 62 so if I understand correctly, he will not qualify for any Medicare until he is 65 or his kidneys totally fail. (Have any idea exactly what Medicare will accept as proof of kidney failure, short of actually being hooked to a dialysis machine?) His GFR in 15, Creatinine 4.3 – he takes hour long naps 2 to 3 times during the day – does not sleep more than an hour at a time at night because the lasix has him wearing out the carpet between the bed and bathroom and the Neph has encouraged him to drink a lot of water, which he does – swelling, numbness and tingling/itching in his extremities are annoying but not severe – PKD cyst pain is not severe but he has unexpected muscle cramps and drowsiness which make driving risky, so he can’t work. He has gotten so absent-minded that every day is like an Easter egg hunt – searching for his glasses, his slippers, his shoes, his belt, his billfold, the remote, etc., and occasionally forgets to take his meds.
He wants to stay off dialysis as long as possible w/o jeopardizing his health/life but we really don’t know when that is or how it is measured – especially in terms of satisfying Medicare. We’re hoping when it is time for him to go back to work in March that he is able to do so with an additional employee to do the work he used to do – which will be one more bite into the diminishing profit!
Yes, I agree that insurance is important, but we discovered many years ago that if you really need insurance then you can’t afford the premiums. We dropped our insurance when the premiums equaled half of our income and we had found we could not get insurance from any other company. Since then both of us have developed other health problems which would also preclude getting coverage by any company at any price.
Once he actually starts dialysis I forsee us qualifying for numerous programs which will help us financially,
but the expenses in the meantime are going to be quite difficult. BTW, the surgeon said if we pay half up front, he’ll write off the rest as uncollectable, but coming up w/ $1,100 is probably not possible right now. Maybe we will have enough time before he actually needs the fistula done to raise it from family and friends, but w/ the increasing costs of his meds, frequent blood work, and his declining health it is highly doubtful. 