My mom passed away a few years ago and I really am finding myself at my wits end. She was on dialysis and she had a cathader in and somehow she got an infection when they pulled the shunt out the infection was sooo bad that it ooosed out like mayonaise. I cant even imagine the pain that she was in we took her in on Wednesday night to the hospital and they released her with a 103 tempature saying that she had the flu. Well It only took till Thursday when we had to take her back to the hospital because she could not even sit up and she was drenched with sweat and she was not making any sense at all she was lathargic. I cant get any answers from anyone the dialysis center sealed all her records because she did not have a living will. I was supposed to donate my kidney to her. I went through all the testing and we were a match. On Oct 4th my birthday we got the good news that we were to go and do the transplant. She died on Oct 14. I am very bitter and want ansers to questions that I cant even ask.